Creative flow interference

Have you ever had a creative thought pop into your mind, only for it to vanish when you try to share it with someone, and they start speaking at the same time? The frustration and disheartenment that follow can make you withdraw, trying in vain to recapture the thought. This is a common example of creative flow interference in adults.

As adults, it can be challenging to watch children scribble outside the lines of a coloring sheet or place googly eyes where the nose is supposed to go. Our natural instinct is often to step in and correct them, guiding them to do it the "right" way. However, it’s crucial to remember that these moments are essential milestones in a child's development. They allow kids to explore trial and error, understand cause and effect, and develop fine motor skills.

When we interfere with their creative flow, our intention might be to encourage creativity by demonstrating the "correct" approach. Instead, we risk creating doubt in their abilities and undermining their confidence. Over time, this can lead to a child who depends heavily on adults for guidance rather than feeling empowered to create independently. Creative flow is a natural process for everyone, but trusting our children and the stage they’re at is key to nurturing it.

Instead of correcting, try sitting with your child and engaging in the activity alongside them. Demonstrating without interrupting their process is far more effective. Use positive language to encourage them. For instance, when you switch colors, they’ll learn they can do the same. When you colour inside the lines, they’ll observe how you control the crayon to achieve precision. The key is to model behaviours without physically intervening or disrupting their creative flow. Trust your child, their instincts, and their unique journey in creativity.